Do you refriger-date?

Nothing surprises me anymore….There is now an app that allows people to express themselves and to find love online solely based upon the contents of their refrigerator. After all, it’s what’s on the inside that counts.

Launched by Samsung, and only available to owners of the Samsung Family Hub, a $4,000 smart fridge with a touch screen and a camera that allows you to view the contents of your fridge from your phone, Refrigerdating lets you see what other users have in their refrigerator. If you don’t like Brussels sprouts, swipe left.

The theory behind this concept is that you can tell a lot about a person by what they eat and drink. Studies show that spicy foods is an indicator that someone takes risks. People with a sweet tooth tend to have a sweeter personality. This study also shows that people who like a lot of bitter food have a more anti-social personality.

I can’t imagine that many people own this $4000 refrigerator and I have heard that there aren’t many users on the app. I would think that most single people wouldn’t need a refrigerator with those types of features. Who knows? Maybe another refrigerdating app will be launched that can be used by owners of various style refrigerators.

Paint and Sip

I went to a Paint and Sip for the first time last night with my girlfriend. We got tickets for $15 on Groupon… doesn’t get much better than that.

Hosted by Paint Boire (you can look them up at at Rocky’s Bar and Restaurant, located at 460 West 34th Street, was Paints, Pints and Pizza. There was approximately 35-40 people at the event and I must say, I would definitely want to attend another event.

The instructor was very funny, witty and personable. He came around to check on everyone and offered to touch up any mistakes on the canvas that would have otherwise been difficult for the patron to mend. One woman actually wrote “Help Me!” on her canvas and he was able to transform it.

As you can see, my friend took a different route with her painting and the instructor totally encouraged it. In fact, several people ended up with paintings nothing similar to what was being taught.

I am someone who has zero drawing/painting skills. I am one step above drawing stick figures for people. If I can walk out with my painting looking as decent as it did, anyone can!

If you’ve never participated in a paint and sip, I recommend it. It is perfect for girls night out, guys night out or a date. You’d be surprised how fluid your brush skills start getting with a glass of wine and music. (S/N: they offered a special of happy hour priced drinks for anyone at the event)

Netflix: Room

If you’re looking for something to watch on Netflix, I recommend Room.

Room is about a young lady who is being held in captivity in a shes located behind her kidnapper’s house. Not only is she in the room, but so is her five year old son who was fathered by her kidnapper.

This young woman has been living in the room for seven years. It is a single room that has a bed, a wardrobe, a bathtub, a hotplate and a television. There is also a skylight.

The young boy is told that the people on television are not real. He is led to believe that there is not a world beyond the four walls he is living in. His mother does this, of course, so that he does not yearn for more than what he has.

Old Nick, the man holding them captive, comes to the room in the evening, at which point the young boy has to spend the night in the wardrobe. He has no interaction with his father.

Old Nick tells the mother that he has been out of work and is low on money. Fearful that he will eventually kill them due to not being able to sustain them any longer, the mother becomes desperate and formulates a plan to escape. She convinces her son to play dead so that Old Nick will take him outside and leave him somewhere to get rid of his body. At this point, he is supposed to run and go for help. His mother gives him a piece of paper to put in his pocket with a message asking for help. The young boy played sick at first in an attempt to have Old Nick take him to a hospital but Old Nick refuses to take him and just gets antibiotics. This is when Plan B came into effect.

I will not describe Room any further and I won’t reveal what transpires after this point. Check it out and see for yourself.

It is amazing how this young mother kept her sanity for seven years in a confined room and no doubt her son is where she drew her strength to push through. Room was the only life he ever knew and because of this and being sheltered from any knowledge of the world that existed outside of the room, he was able to be a pretty “normal” and even minded young boy.

The City that Never Sleeps

It’s amazing how you can live in a city your whole life and still not have experienced all that it has to offer. I live in New York City, which is made up of five boroughs: Brooklyn, Staten Island, Manhattan, Queens and the Bronx. I was born in Brooklyn and lived there until my freshman year of high school. We then moved to Staten Island where I lived for another 9 years. At this point, I moved on to Yonkers, which is the very beginning of Westchester County and borders the Bronx (you can literally walk from the Bronx to Yonkers). I then returned to Staten Island years later and have been living here again for the last six years, while working in Brooklyn.

So my entire life I have lived and worked in New York and for some parts, right next to it, and still there are so many hidden gems that have yet to be discovered. There are tourists that have seen more of New York City than I have.

The thing is, there is literally so much to do here that even when you do get out, there is still so much more to see. One person can’t possibly take all of it in. That’s what I love about New York City. There are endless possibilities of things to do. You will literally never have nothing to do.

I have always been obsessed with going out and exploring new sites and cultures and events and New York is one of the only places that has something for everyone. We have restaurants and clubs and sites to accommodate any interest or preference you have.

My girlfriend and I decided that hopefully twice a month, we will go out and explore something new within New York City. This includes any and all of the boroughs. There are so many websites that you can learn about what there is to do and get discount tickets to different venues and events. With Goldstar and Groupon, the possibilities are endless. With public transportation, every place is just a train ride away. Or an Uber.

A few weeks ago, we ended up in Industrial City in Sunset Park at a temporary Escher Exhibit.

We then ended up in Little Italy in Manhattan at a cozy Italian restaurant called La Vita Bella.

Last night, we went to a Japanese restaurant in Times Square called Natsumi. It is located on West 50th St off of 8th Avenue. There are actually two Natsumi locations on that same street. It was intimate and cozy. Nice, laid back and relaxing atmosphere. The salmon avocado rolls were very tasty and I enjoyed my cheesecake dessert.

Afterwards, we went to Broadway Comedy Club on West 53rd St. The place was packed and seating was tight but once the jokes started rolling (and the drinks start hitting), you don’t even care.

In between activities and after, we acted like tourists and enjoyed the bright lights and lots of pictures. It was midnight yet you would have thought it was 2 pm with how active and bright it is. New York City is literally the city that doesn’t sleep.

My train ride home went smooth until I had to transfer. The one I needed was no longer running so I called an Uber (which got there in literally one minute) to take me to my car. That’s another thing about New York City. An Uber is ALWAYS waiting.

National Popcorn Day

Did you know that Americans eat 13 billion quarts of popcorn each year? Now I’m not a mathematician but that sounds like a lot of Popcorn. So it should come as no surprise that the US has a day dedicated to popcorn.

January 19th is National Popcorn Day in the United States of America. Popcorn dates back to the 16th century but didn’t become popular in the US until the late 1800’s. Believe it or not, popcorn started out in the US as a popular breakfast food. Ella Kellogg (sound familiar?) enjoyed her popcorn ground with milk or cream. John Harvard Kellogg stayed popcorn was a wholesome and easily digestible food. I could be wrong but I think they were on to something. Popcorn was the inspiration for many cereals to come.

Wonder where popcorn comes from? Popcorn producing states are Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Michigan Mississippi, Nebraska and Ohio.

Popcorn has been used as a holiday decoration. People decorated their Christmas trees with popcorn and even gave popcorn balls as gifts.

Popcorn didn’t become a movie theater treat until the 1920’s. Before this time, theaters didn’t sell popcorn because it was too messy. Popcorn vendors outside of the theaters would sell popcorn to people going into the theater and theater owners soon followed suit once they realized how popular it was. Popcorn has become a good staple for moviegoers, whether in the theater or at home. Whenever we have movie night at home, we pop a bag of popcorn. It is funny how we always have a box of microwave popcorn in my house and only touch it when we watch a movie.

The popcorn business thrived even during the Great Depression as it was an affordable treat.

As I mentioned earlier, popcorn dates back to the 16th century. Aztec Indians used popcorn in ceremonies, where women would wear popcorn garlands upon their head. Peruvian Indians in the 17th century toasted a type of corn until it burst. Kernels of popcorn were found in burial grounds in coastal northern Chile where it was so well preserved it could still be popped even though they were over a thousand years old.

The Day I Did Nothing

I was on vacation from work these last few days. Actually, I had a five day vacation. I was supposed to go to my second gig from 3 to 11 on Saturday, but was not feeling well due to a lingering sinus infection and I called out. Although I didn’t work over the weekend, I did not rest. I went out shopping at numerous stores, both for Christmas gifts and also for items that I needed at home since most stores would be closed Christmas Day.

On Monday, Christmas Eve, I had “vacation” but I wouldn’t exactly call it that. My job ended up calling me at 10 am and I was on the phone with staff I supervise until 5 pm. helping with a last minute deadline our job gave us. So I ended up clocking in from home. I definitely would not call that a break from my job.

I didn’t get to really relax until Christmas Day. We cooked but it was low key and intimate. We are a small bunch, my family. Today, however, I literally did absolutely NOTHING!!! And it felt so good.! You don’t realize how much you need a nothing day until you actually have it. So many times, even when we are off, we are not. We are running around doing errands, going to a second job, running around with children, etc. So I ask you….When was the las time you did NOTHING?

I didn’t even shower today (I don’t care what you think!) I woke up and ate leftovers from yesterday, looked at my phone for three hours and am currently laying on the couch in my pajamas watching a movie. When my movie is done, I will take a shower and get right back to the couch to watch another movie.

I strongly recommend you put aside a day for yourself at least once a month where you do nothing at all! Up until recently, I was working myself wayyyyy too hard. I would work my regular Monday through Friday job, then work a weekend day at my second gig. Then that would leave me one day to run all my errands and then drive into the city to pick up my son from his dad. There was zero time to myself. My department recently transferred to a new organization, and with this transition came new responsibilities and new systems to learn. I was also promoted to a supervisory position while still maintaining much of my previous responsibilities so it has been quite overwhelming. My hours at the office have gone longer during this new transition phase and that was when it really hit me. I realized I needed to take some time before I wore myself thin.

So now, every month I am going to take one day to do nothing at all and not feel guilty about it. I think we often think we are being lazy if we take a day to ourselves to just bum around the house. I was that person who equates running around like a madman to being productive. But it is not the case. It is mentally and physically healthy to have down time and take a break once in a while. It’s ok to not mop the floor for a day or two. It’s ok to run to the deli to get some necessities to hold you over a couple of days if you can’t make it to the supermarket for a big shop. It’s okay to say no to extra hours if you are exhausted. It’s okay to not cook and eat leftovers or boxed Mac and Cheese. It is OKAY!

That’s Amore

I took a picture last night from the San Gennaro festival on Mulberry Street in Little Italy, New York City. These two lovebirds happened to be sitting right in front of me and I purposely included them in my picture because they looked so cute and into each other.

Could it have been a first date? Possibly. Maybe a couple who broke up and got back together? High school sweethearts? Who knows.